Don’t worry, I have already identified that I am incredibly stupid for feeling this way, but I am always a little stressed when thinking about building my collection. I want a watch for each outfit look and occasion; and they have to showcase an interesting facet of the watch world (history, design, mechanism). And I have a low budget and 12 slots in my box so I feel like each watch has to be very carefully chosen (and often weighed against knowledgeable collectors’ opinions). Perhaps this is a curse for us collectors trammelled by a low budget. Does this resonate with anyone else or are you a more impulsive purchaser? How do I relax more?
Do I feel pressured to get my collection “right”? No.
Do I buy impulsively? Yeah, on occasion. There’s been a few under $500 watches that I just bought without thinking. I’ve gotten a lot better about this, though. I fall in lust almost every day, but I let it marinate for a while. If, after weeks or months have passed, I’m still thinking about it, then I’ll probably buy it. Most of the time, I find I forget about whatever it is I was pining after within a few days.
I think it’s impossible to pick the perfect watch. After years of collecting and selling, I’ve learned you’ll refine what you like and go through phases. It’s all part of learning and enjoying the hobby. Stop watching review videos and collection videos and just enjoy the watches you have. Suddenly, the pressure will be gone.