Ok please this isn’t about insecurity or confidence!!! Those are things I DO need to work on of course, perhaps we all do. But I just mean - I do my hair and makeup and feel so content about my “work” lol and then when I go out I feel like I look like a sweaty loser clown? Everyone else looks snatched and hot and I’m disheveled? How do I look more put together? I think my lighting is fine but is there a lighting mirror device people recommend to help with this? Or something I’m not thinking of? I’m not great at makeup - but I’m decent? I feel like I’ve figured out which primer I like, what foundations last vs which make me shiny too fast, Im plugged into all the “right” tik tok algorithms and use products I like! I’m tired of stepping out and feeling bad and ugly. Maybe it’s just my face.

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    1 year ago

    Rule of thumb I’ve learned a long time ago, always check your makeup in natural light. It will save you from any anxiety trust!