I mean that’s why they’d be disliked by men.

Feminine anything is seen as inferior by men, and even some women, despite them seeing femininity as better for women. It’s very hypocritical.

I’d say women adhere to what you said less than men, I don’t personally know any women that would complain if men started taking care of their skin and being more emotionally open. I won’t argue that they don’t do it at all. They do. And it’s still misogyny/sexism when they do.

I’m not an expert on this but I’d assume it’s because as a woman they’re seen as inferior no matter what, so them acting masculine is seen as insulting. That or homophobia.