Have you had a medical investigation into why you breathe through your mouth? It seems like that’s the issue to resolve rather than finding a better lipstick?

Yes! A wonderful suggestion! The work of Ragen Chastain and Lindley Ashline is also super helpful too.

My love, I am a massive fatty and have been my whole life. I’ve done every diet, lost (and gained) hundreds of pounds in weight. No matter how low the number on the scale, I never felt pretty or worthy or good enough.

Makeup wasn’t the issue.

When I accepted that I was going to be fat for the duration, my life changed. I decided I was going to do it fat- whatever ‘it’ was, I was going to make myself do it.

My world is so much bigger and better now. Things aren’t perfect, but I very rarely think about my weight any more.

Your worth as a human being is not defined by the number on the scale or the size label in your clothes. You are precious and valuable exactly as you are.