In my opinion that’s… a good thing? You’re mostly describing your base, which you want to look like skin! But if you’re wanting more dimension in the finished product, maybe play around with your blush application or try a different shade. You could also add a dab of highlight here and there.
My bet would be any comments about it “not looking like you’re wearing any makeup” are primarily about your eye makeup. If you’re happy with what you do now, stick with it! That’s what matters most. But if you wanted, experiment with more dramatic eye looks.
Or add a bold lip!
There are color correcting lotions you might want to look into. Hero cosmetics Rescue balm +Red correct, or Dr. Jart Cicapair.