i’ve started wearing a bit more makeup recently, but i today i noticed that it gets ruined pretty quickly to an unbelievable extent.

today i put on some heavy eye makeup & a very light base (but including primer and powder) at around 6 am. Keep in mind that i’m at school all day doing basically nothing (except a 30 minute walk during lunch break). At around 2:30 I look in a mirror and turns out i look as if i’d been mauled by a bunch of animals and somehow brought back to life… Like, no matter what you’re picturing, it probably looked even worse. Like, i don’t mean to make myself sound like some sort of crybaby, but i was genuinely on the brink of tears after seeing myself like that from the sheer embarrassment. I literally felt like I was going to throw up - it was that bad…

Anyway, I guess I just don’t understand how it’s possible for my makeup to get that obliterated in a matter of a few hours while doing nothing? It’s not like i was working out or anything and i’m not a naturally sweaty person… Plus I tend to buy makeup others recommend.

Does anyone have any ideas on what might be the issue? :(

  • kennydacopyguy@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    if you are using a water based foundation use a water based primer. if you are using a silicon based foundation use a silicon primer. if you mix and match the primer/foundation will break down within hours and look awful

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    11 months ago

    I’ve felt like this so many times after wearing makeup for quite a few hours so I 100% understand how you feel! It can be such a bummer, especially when you feel like you look fine but then you look in the mirror and look like… crusty and dull!!!

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    11 months ago

    Could you please elaborate more on what’s happening with your makeup?

    Don’t know how new you are to makeup but I sincerely have noticed that my face will look bad after a long day if I don’t let my primer dry completely before using foundation and then let it dry before adding more to my face.

    You’re taking a 30minute walk during lunch hours - getting sweaty or just walking around?

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      11 months ago

      well tbh i didn’t look at myself for more than 3 seconds, but from what i remember seeing, my eyeshadow/eyeliner was all smudged, the white shimmery eyeshadow i put on the corners of my eyes was all over my face, i had like no foundation left on my face, & my concealer was extremely flaky and weird looking

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        11 months ago

        The eyeshadow is fixed by using an eyeshadow primer. Urban decays primer potion is really good.

        Whatever you put in the corner of your eyes WILL disappear.

        The foundation coming off is because of oil production, climate, and maybe you were touching your face without realising it. The flakyness is caused by oils breaking it down, or by the products drying out your skin. A good silicone primer will keep the oils at bay for longer but you will still need to do touch ups.

        Skincare is more important than the products and technique. You need to be hydrated and moisturised or its going to look awful regardless.

        I use the Estee lauder double wear powder foundation in my t zone because that’s where I get oily and my makeup lasts a lot longer.

        Welcome to wearing makeup for a full day!

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    11 months ago

    I think a picture of your makeup in the morning vs when you say it looks demolished would help us identify the problem better if you’re comfortable. Or at least specifically describe that difference.

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    11 months ago

    What makeup stays on you depends on the makeup brand/formula and your skin type.

    My makeup will normally stay put completely but I also don’t like it to be heavy (typical of full coverage etc.) so it usually takes me a lot of trial and error before I find my go-to products.

    There are some good staples for every product though, IMO, that generally work for most people. For example, for foundation, Estée Lauder Double Wear works for most. It may not be everyone’s favorite but staying in place won’t be the issue. For every product from primer to powder, there are staples like this.

    So what melted away? Foundation? Eyeliner? Contour?

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    11 months ago

    Do you use an eye primer? A good, sticky one might help your eyeshadow stay in place better. It could also be your eyeshadow too. I’ve had some pallettes where it seems like the shades “travel” on my face a lot more than others.

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    11 months ago

    Not sure which parts of your makeup you’re talking about. Sometimes some products work for others but won’t work for you. For example, I could never use a non waterproof mascara or wear eyeliner/concealer without setting it with powder. Finding the right eye pencil that doesn’t smudge on your eyes is a challenge as well. And any makeup needs some touch ups during the day, especially eye pencils or powder. Maybe you have oily skin?!

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    11 months ago
    • Do you rub your eyes during the day?
    • Do you have glasses that press up against your lashes?
    • Do you live in an especially humid area?
    • Do you live in an especially arid area?
    • Are you using a ton of glitter? Some glitter eyeshadows can have pretty bad fallout. Non-glittery ones can have the same issue of course, but it seems like glitters are especially likely to wind up on every part of your face.
    • Are you applying too much all at once? That can also cause fallout. Nothing wrong with going bold, but a thin layer may last longer than a thick layer if your eyeshadow is prone to fallout (or if it’s just not very buildable)

    Lid primer and/or setting spray could potentially help! But if adding a primer and updating your technique don’t work, it could be that your products just aren’t great OR that they just don’t agree with you - everyone’s skin is different.

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      11 months ago

      none of those really apply to me, so i guess i’ll just hve to try out some different products. ty!

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    11 months ago

    What exactly was wrong?

    My eye makeup used to crease when I was new to using makeup. I’d do an awesome smokey eye, but my eyelids would be naked halfway through the day, surrounded by the rest of my dark eyeshadow. It looked awful. I wasn’t using an eye primer, and I have hooded eyes, so my entire eyelids became an oily mess throughout the day and the powders had nothing to hold onto.

    Urban Decay Primer Potion has worked phenomenally for me, and you can buy a smaller tube to try it out. There are lots of other eye primers, too.

    But it’s hard to say or recommend anything when the only description we have is “mauled by a bunch of animals.” It’s certainly funny and dramatic, but it doesn’t really help us help you.

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    11 months ago

    Your skin will naturally produce oils, sweat and tears, even if you’re not doing anything strenuous. Unfortunately, not all makeup works on all skin types and it takes a bit of trial and error to get something that works for you. What others recommend may not actually be suitable for your skin type.

    My personal tip is to maybe hold back on doing heavy eye makeup until you can work out what the combination is to make it stay. Heavy eyemakeup that migrates and smudges always ruins the makeup look and it can be quite disheartening.

    If you’re not using an eye primer, I would recommend it. Face primer does not work the same as eye primer as I learnt the hard way. Apply it to both your lid and under eye and let it dry properly before applying any shadows/liner. I’d use a combo of lighter shades and lighter liner/mascara until you can work out what is causing the problem without it looking like a disaster.

    Another thing could be making sure your makeup has time to “set” in between steps. This will help with the longevity of the makeup.

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    11 months ago

    Did you put on sunscreen before makeup? Some sunscreens, and some oilier moisturizers, and make makeup “break” and look gross.

    Do you have oily skin? Maybe you’re using a “glowy” product when you should be using a matte one (or the opposite for dry skin).

    Is it possible that your skin reacted to something in the makeup? I’ve heard about people having horrible reactions, from black, swollen eyes to hives to full-on welts, from allergies to certain ingredients in some products.

    Is it possible that you went in too heavy and the makeup just… melted? Migrated? Faded off?

    What lighting did you use to apply? My bathroom lighting runs very yellow so I have to check in natural light before leaving the house to make sure I don’t look orange, and even then sometimes I look fine in natural light and like re-warmed death under office/mall bathroom lighting.

    Did your makeup oxidize through the day? I found a shade that I loved in one foundation, only to realize that after an hour of wear it turned ashy and pilled.

    Could be so many things… hard to tell without more info.

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    It’s all in the brand. I tried some Amor Us just to do a full face of make up for giggles, and when I blew my nose once, I ended up with a giant patch of setting spray, powder, foundation and primer all completely GONE for the rest of the day. The rest slid off my face by noon.

    You get what you pay for, I guess - I think Estee Lauder, Urban Decay, and KVD, and Too Faced make my favorite long wearing make up and I can be very confident it won’t need a touch up.

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    11 months ago

    I think it would have to be the quality of the makeup? Recommendations, particularly those from “influencers” aren’t always reliable.